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introducing your new baby to your pet
Adding a baby to your family is a wonderful time in your life. It can also quickly become stressful if you do not have a plan in place on how to deal with your pet and new baby. We have put together some basic information on a smooth transition to bringing home your new bundle of joy. The key is to start early!! If the baby has arrived and you are now seeking help, you will also find this information helpful. You must keep in mind, especially if this is your first baby, that up until now your pet was your baby.
The information below is divided between cats and dogs. We have used our own experiences, as well as from various experts including the American Veterinary Medical Association, to help guide you. Please remember that any persistent, aggressive behavior should be discussed with your veterinarian immediately.

Cats & Babies


Babies and cats do not typically present too many problems, as cats will tend to stay away from the messy and noisy scene. However, be sure to introduce kitty to the 'concept' of the new addition. Allow your cat to investigate the room and its contents. If your 'lapcat' finds its most comfortable snoozing spot suddenly occupied, his feelings might be hurt. Try allowing your cat to check out the baby while you hold it. Pet your cat in her favorite spot while you hold the baby. Sometimes we just need a little reassurance that we have not been replaced.
Toddlers, on the other hand, sometimes test kitty's patience. We will discuss toddlers and small children in a separate section.

We would be remiss if we failed to include the 'Old Wive's Tales' about babies and cats. Once upon a time, people thought that cats possessed magical (& sometimes evil) powers which included 'sucking the breath out of babies' or smothering them because of the milk scent. This is typically an excuse used by people who are too lazy to deal with the integration of a new baby into their feline household. The experienced cat owner will assure you that cats do not possess mystical powers, although they can be quite crafty at times! A responsible pet owner and parent will be wise enough to never leave their infant or small child unattended with an animal. Cats are naturally curious and, you must keep in mind, not humans - but cats. They should not be expected to think as a human and know that it could be harmful for them to lay on top of a baby. It is the responsibilty of the human adult to oversee all interaction between baby and kitty. Try keeping the baby behind closed doors when you are not close-by or investing in netting to place over cribs and playpens to keep your frisky feline out of the way.

During a woman's pregnancy, her first pre-natal vist should include a discussion with the doctor regarding Toxoplasmosis and the litterbox. Modern science has revealed that there is virtually no threat to the majority of women who avoid the litterbox and gardening during their pregnancy. Of the 4 million babies born each year in the United States, only 1,200 are affected with some form of toxoplasmosis. The majority of these cases are slight infections including eye irritations and rashes. Statistics further show that 60 percent of domestic cats and 80 percent of humans have been exposed, and therefore built immunity, to the disease. Cats can only shed the infectious parasite one time during their life and it takes 24 hours before it is transmissible to humans through direct contact with the feces. So, it is highly unlikely that this will occur during the cat owner's pregnancy (keeping in mind also that the cat owner has probably already been exposed and has anitibodies to the disease).

There are still concerns regarding proper precautions during a woman's pregnancy. Care must be taken to avoid the litterbox. If there is no one else who can take on this chore, wearing gloves and a face mask should be sufficient to avoid exposure. This is a disease to be taken seriously, but there is no medical evidence to suggest a pregnant woman should get rid of her cats. Discuss this matter with your obstetrician and veterinarian. Carefully follow established precautions during your pregnancy.



Dogs & Babies


Before bringing home your new baby, your dog needs a little warning! Dogs are naturally curious, so let him sniff around in the nursery. By completely restricting entry, the dog is sure there must be something that needs chewed up in there! Supervise her checking out the new smells of paint, furniture and clothing. Start carrying a 'baby' (wrap up a doll in a baby blanket)around and let the dog see you talking to it and moving about with it. This is especially important if you have a dog with jumping tendencies. This exercise allows you to teach him there is no jumping allowed to try and see or sniff the baby while you are holding it. You may also want to practice taking the stroller and dog out together so you can both get used to this.

Because dogs are so smell oriented, if you are up to letting him have a few sniffs of the new baby, it will alleviate some of the curiousity. This should be done under close supervision while you are holding the baby. You may want to stroke their favorite spot and talk calmly to her while she checks out the new family member. Most important with this exercise is for the parents to relax. If you are tense or stressed, the dog will sense it and often mirror your emotions.

To achieve a smooth integration of your new family member, the key is for you to be in control of the situation. If you do not have control over your dog, then you are starting out behind! Every dog owner should have basic obedience control over their pooch. If you do not, please go to our link for behavior problems to learn how to be the 'top dog' in your house. Toddlers, small children and dogs are also discussed in detail on another page. Kids and dogs are a great Norman Rockwell painting, but it takes some work and planning from the parent/dog owner to keep the peace.

When you bring home the new baby, just keep some simple advice at hand and remember - It's important for your pup to know that they still have a secure role in the family.By starting early and practicing patience, you will be able to enjoy bringing the baby home, worryfree!